My wife is relatively understanding, knows that I bet and that Cheltenham week is hugely important to me, but then again, I don’t go into detail about my staking / punting to her. I have been profitable in all bar a couple of years and will tell her if I have had a good or a bad day/week and treat her and the family with winnings, but to be honest, I think if I showed her my P&L and she saw the cumulative stakes (regardless of the profits) over the years, she would probably have a fit, and I am not a big stakes punter – albeit that it is all relative to one’s own situation.
And ditto again for what Saxon mentioned. - regards letting on to the Mrs.
Also been in Banking all my life, and now part own a very small financial advice company. You would think this would give me some credibility with the Mrs !!
During lockdown 2020 I took the majority of my bank out after Cheltenham as I thought the world was going to end and all the bookies were going to go bust, and the wife noticed it when we were preparing statements to get the mortgage sorted.
She Still doesn't know that my annual turnover is 6 figures though !
We then moved house and I let her have half my bank to help offset the mortgage. The Bank was inflated a fair bit to be fair after a very good couple of years, and it being immediately after Cheltenham 2020.
We have fully offset the mortgage balance with savings, as we are planning many renovations etc.
Summer 2020 was then a nightmare form wise, as is typical, so the Bank was getting tight.
However, a reasonable Winter and very decent Cheltenham, aintree and Punchestown has put me back on track.
Only for her to pointedly ask me the other day how much I now had across all my betting accounts




Followed by - "Why do you need that much in your accounts etc"
Obviously the Bank has been reduced once again.

Coronavirus has a lot to answer for.
PS - she knows I watch porn as well, although not every time she leaves the house

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